Grow Together: Group Coaching for Lasting Gratitude Habits

​Today I’m introducing our group coaching sessions designed specifically for the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge.

Join weekly meetings where we’ll share strategies, tackle obstacles together, and help each other build lasting habits of thankfulness.

Your heart is the seat of your decisions, the seat of your emotions and the seat of your actions. So every day for 70 days—-from Friday, September 19, 2025 – Thursday November 27, 2025

I’m going to do 3 simple things.

1. Choose to give thanks
2. Feel grateful for what I give thanks for
3. Show appreciation for what I feel gratitude for

And I invite you to do the same.

I’m Trevor Lund, the Creative Storyteller at https://revtrev.com, the founder of Live LIGHT Academy at https://livelight.ca and your host inside the Live LIGHT Cascade Chalet http://revtrev.link/chalet If you want to catch me live, on YouTube go to https://revtrev.com/tv or do to Facebook at https://revtrev.com/fb and like and set notification to catch me live there or follow on X at https://revtrev.com/x and be notified there. I what to help you give thanks with your whole heart https://revtrev.link/heart

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Ready for extra support? Join our group coaching sessions during the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge! These weekly meetings provide hands-on guidance as you build strong habits of thankfulness alongside others on the same journey.

We’ll discuss common obstacles, share strategies for staying motivated, and encourage each other every step of the way. Group coaching is a great way to deepen your experience—especially if you want real-time feedback or just enjoy learning with others. Secure your spot today and be part of a supportive group committed to growing in gratitude together!

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Grow Together: Group Coaching for Lasting Gratitude Habits

Introduction: Why Gratitude Habits Are Most Powerful in Community

Gratitude has the power to transform lives. It shifts our mindset, strengthens relationships, and builds resilience in the face of life’s challenges. Yet, as simple as gratitude sounds, making it a consistent habit can be tough. Old patterns, busy schedules, and moments of stress often get in the way. If you’ve ever started a gratitude journal and stopped after a few days, you’re not alone.

What if you didn’t have to do it alone?

Group coaching is a proven way to build lasting gratitude habits—providing structure, support, and accountability so your thankfulness thrives long after the initial spark. That’s why the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge offers dedicated group coaching sessions to help you not just start, but sustain gratitude for life.

What Is Group Coaching for Gratitude?

Group coaching brings people together under the guidance of an experienced coach or facilitator. Unlike solo self-help or even one-on-one coaching, group sessions offer a unique mix of personal attention and community wisdom.

During the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge, group coaching means:

• Weekly virtual meetings led by Trevor or a certified coach
• Focused lessons and practical exercises
• Real-time discussion and sharing in a safe space
• Personalized feedback and encouragement
• Accountability built into every session
• Access to a supportive network of fellow gratitude seekers

Whether you’re new to gratitude or looking to deepen your practice, group coaching provides the tools and environment needed for real change.

Why Group Coaching Works: The Science and the Heart

1. Accountability Fuels Consistency

It’s easy to skip a day or forget a new habit when you’re on your own. In a group setting, knowing others are counting on you boosts your motivation. Weekly check-ins keep everyone on track.

2. Shared Wisdom Multiplies Growth

We all bring different experiences to the table. Hearing how others practice gratitude in their lives—from overcoming setbacks to celebrating small wins—opens your eyes to new methods and perspectives.

3. Safe Space for Honest Reflection

Group coaching creates an atmosphere of trust. You can share struggles and victories without fear of judgment. This vulnerability is key for breaking old patterns and embracing new ones.

4. Positive Energy Is Contagious

Gratitude grows when it’s shared. Celebrating together amplifies joy; supporting each other during hard times builds resilience.

5. Structure and Guidance

A skilled coach leads each session with proven frameworks—so you’re not just talking about gratitude but practicing it with intention and clarity.

How Group Coaching Fits Into the Live LIGHT Challenge

The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge is built on three pillars: daily reflection, guided learning, and community support. Group coaching sits at the centre of this model—providing weekly momentum that keeps you engaged and growing.

How it works:

• Weekly Sessions: Meet with your group (online) once a week for 50 minutes.
• Theme-Based Learning: Each session covers a key topic—such as overcoming negativity, expressing thanks in relationships, or celebrating progress.
• Action Steps: Coaches provide exercises designed to fit into your daily life.
• Progress Tracking: Review your wins, challenges, and insights with the group.
• Ongoing Support: Ask questions and get feedback between sessions via forums or messaging.

Whether you join one session or participate throughout all 70 days, group coaching helps cement gratitude as a lasting habit.

Group Coaching Topics

Here’s a sample of the first 7 sessions

Week 1: Choosing Gratitude Daily

• Explore your “why” for choosing gratitude
• Learn simple practices to start each day with thankfulness
• Share intentions with the group for accountability
  

Week 2: Gratitude for Simple Things

• Practice mindfulness techniques to spot good moments
• Discuss obstacles to noticing positivity
• Challenge: Keep a daily “gratitude snapshot” journal

Week 3: Feeling Grateful Emotionally

• Explain difference between thinking gratitude and feeling it emotionally.
• Discuss how gratitude impacts family, work, and friendships
• Group exercise: Share one relationship you want to nurture through thankfulness
  

Week 4: Expressing Appreciation

• I Importance of active gratitude—speaking or acting on thankfulness.
• Learn why you may hold back from showing appreciation and how to fix it
• Support each other in tough moments with encouraging words
  

Week 5: Gratitude in Challenges

• Discuss how gratitude can bring perspective and strength in hardship.
• Emphasis on feeling gratitude over deciding to give thanks.
• Support each other by sharing how has gratitude changed your view of adversity.
  

Week 6: Gratitude for Relationships

• Emphasize valuing relationships as a key source of gratitude.
• Share stories of appreciation for family, friends, or colleagues.
• Hear how others and share yourself how you show gratitude to people who support or inspire you

Week 7: Gratitude and Being Present

• Connect being present practice with deepening gratitude awareness.
• Share how being present help you notice things to be grateful for
• Learn from others what mindfulness practices help them stay connected to gratitude.

What Makes Live LIGHT Group Coaching Special?

Experienced Leadership

Sessions are led by Trevor who understands both the value of habit formation and the heart of spiritual growth. You get expert guidance rooted in biblical wisdom (like Psalm 138:1) and practical psychology.

Safe & Supportive Environment

Respect is core; every member’s journey matters. Confidentiality is honoured so everyone can share freely. You get a safe space to self-express your thoughts, feelings and emotions without judgement, criticism or condemnation. There is no replay of the group coaching sessions.

Flexible Participation

Join live sessions or catch up on replays if your schedule is tight. Access all resources at your pace.

Lifetime Community Access

Your connection doesn’t end after 70 days—you can return for future sessions, workshops, or simply check in when you need encouragement.

How Does Accountability Work in Group Coaching?

Accountability is woven throughout every session:

• Progress Updates: Each meeting begins with personal check-ins—what went well, what was hard.
• Commitment Setting: End each session by naming one gratitude action for the coming week.
• Gentle Reminders: Coaches follow up (via email or forums) to keep motivation high.
• Peer Support: Members encourage one another between sessions.
• Celebration of Milestones: Mark progress together at key points (21 days in, halfway through, completion).

This structure makes it much harder to slip back into old habits—and much easier to keep moving forward.

Real-Life Applications: How Group Coaching Changes Lives

Let’s imagine how two members might experience group coaching:

Maria always struggled with negative self-talk. In her group coaching sessions, she learned how others reframe setbacks with gratitude. Sharing her own wins—and hearing encouragement from peers—helped her break old patterns.

James felt isolated during stressful times at work. Through weekly calls, he discovered practical ways to express appreciation to colleagues and family. The accountability of the group kept him consistent; now gratitude is part of his daily routine.

These stories show that group coaching isn’t just about learning—it’s about transformation through shared experience.

Frequently Asked Questions About Group Coaching

Q: Do I need prior experience with gratitude practice?
No! Groups welcome everyone—from beginners to seasoned practitioners.

Q: What if I miss a session?
Replays are not available; but catch up anytime. Coaches also offer notes so you stay informed.

Q: What’s the commitment?
Attend weekly sessions (live or replay), complete simple exercises between meetings, and check in with peers if possible.

Q: Is this faith-based only?
The approach draws from biblical wisdom but focuses on universal themes of thankfulness—open to all backgrounds.

Q: Is there an extra cost?
Group coaching may be part of a premium challenge package; see revtrev.link/thanks for details.

Tips for Maximizing Your Group Coaching Experience

• Show Up Regularly: Consistency builds trust—and habits.
• Share Honestly: Vulnerability helps everyone grow; celebrate wins and admit struggles.
• Encourage Others: A kind word goes a long way.
• Complete Exercises: Try every prompt—even if it feels awkward at first.
• Reflect Weekly: Journal about what you learned or noticed each session.
• Celebrate Milestones: Mark progress together; collective celebration boosts motivation.
• Return Often: Lifetime access means you can come back anytime—for refresher sessions or ongoing support.

How Group Coaching Fits With Other Challenge Activities

For best results:

• Pair group coaching with daily blog highlights for deep reflection.
• Join live casts for real-time inspiration.
• Listen to podcasts on-the-go for extra encouragement.
• Connect in forums for extra peer support.

This multi-layered approach helps reinforce gratitude from every angle—making it part of who you are.

Why Choose Group Coaching Over Going Solo?

Solo journaling is valuable—but most people lose momentum over time. Group coaching offers:

• Built-in accountability
• Shared wisdom from diverse experiences
• Structured learning and growth
• Positive energy from collective celebration
• Support during setbacks

It’s the difference between struggling alone and thriving together.

Final Thoughts: Grow Together for Lifelong Gratitude

Building lasting gratitude habits is a journey—one that’s richer when shared. The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge’s group coaching program gives you tools, structure, and community so thankfulness becomes second nature. Whether you’re starting fresh or restarting after setbacks, group support makes all the difference.

If you’re ready for more joy, resilience, and positivity in your life—and want friends cheering you on along the way—group coaching is your next step.

Sign up today at revtrev.link/thanks
and discover how growing together can turn thankfulness into a lifelong habit!

How to Align to Abide

AbideExplore what it means to Align to Abide in the presence of God. We discuss how this impacts our daily lives. Join us as we examine scripture and share personal stories of hope and renewal. Discover practical ways to embrace faith and let the resurrection guide your journey.

Trevor H. Lund is the founder of Live LIGHT Academy at https://livelight.ca/ and the Creative Storyteller at https://revtrev.com Check out https://revtrev.com/tv for past videos and live casts and https://revtrev.com/radio to salign abideubscribe to his podcast wherever you listen.

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Do you know that we become like what we worship?

Maybe it’s better said “We become more like what we put our trust in.”

Look at where I get this from

*Psalm 115:4-8 Their idols are silver and gold, the work of human hands. They have mouths, but do not speak; eyes, but do not see. They have ears, but do not hear; noses, but do not smell. They have hands, but do not feel; feet, but do not walk; and they do not make a sound in their throat. Those who make them become like them; so do all who trust in them.

It’s a spiritual principle that we become like who we worship, or become like those we trust in.

The more we spend time with God, the more we become like Him. Technically, God makes us more and more like the Son He loves—who is the exact representation of the Father.

If you want to grow any fruit of the spirit, you need to spend time with God, who will grow Holy Spirit’s fruit in you.

What does living in the light of His resurrection mean to you?

For me, it’s abiding with Him, so I become more and more like Him.

When do you spend time with Him?

How do you spend time with Him?

I’ve noticed for me, it changes over time.

In this current season of you’re in what does it look like?

Before we get into all that…

Can I pray for you?

Pick a Rhythm to Abide

Seek Him Always, Seek Him and find Him, Seek Him and Live

Over the better part of the last year I have felt Holy Spirit drawing me to seek Him always, to seek Him and find Him, to seek Him and live.

What did that look like in the day-to-day-of-my-everyday?

Options for Rhythms to help Abide

Was it remembering Him in the times-between-times? The monks in the Middle Ages called this Statio. They’d come early to events just to have time to be aware God was already there.

Maybe that was how I could seek the Lord?

Maybe it was to have to praise breaks? Moments of Selah. David wrote he will praise God seven times a day. Seven is the number of completeness so it’s a poetic way to say “I will always praise you”. But I did have a time in my life where I set 7 alarms up on my watch and whenever they sounded I’d praise the Lord…it led to awkward and interesting conversations.

Maybe that was how I should seek the Lord?

What about Exemen? Exemen is a Jesuit prayer rhythm where at the end of the day you think about how you’ve been with God. Be thankful for that, but figure out where you failed and confess and repent so you can do better tomorrow. There may have been some mental flagellation—or self-flagellation for that matter—involved, but I didn’t think I needed to go there.

What I decided to try to Abide

I set my Reminders for different times in the day to remember to do all of these rhythms…

But I knew He wanted me to set the best part on my day apart for Him.

So my main focus was on—what I started calling—the Align to Abide Prayer. I developed it over that time. I found a prayer wheel that had 12 sections of 5 minutes each to make up a complete hour and I worked my own out of that.

Pick a time to Abide

I found I needed to do the prayer wheel first thing in the morning—after I stretched and took my morning meds. So I started getting up earlier so I’d have time on days I have early morning meetings. I’ve had to set my clock to 5:45 AM—I’ve trained myself so most days I can be up by then.

While I have the structure of twelve five-minute sections for one hour, some have permanently lengthened and others rarely take that long. On mornings I don’t have meetings, I can go longer than an hour. What I’m trying to say is that it’s not set, it’s a fluid time. I need to have grace for my self and commitments.

I’ve taken to calling this the Align to Abide Prayer Rhythm because it helps times of Selah and Statio and Exemen to naturally happen. I find when I align in the morning, it’s easier to be aware of His presence throughout the day and I naturally use those tools when I’m do.

The difference between religion and relationship

You can do what you do out of religion or relationship - motives matter. Maturity determines where you naturally default to…but all of us can slip anytime. Don’t think when you start doing something out of relationship that you don’t start doing it religiously.

I’ve often found the people who pride themselves on not being religious are the ones to act the most religiously. They hate it when I point it out to them. So I’ve learned to ask questions and tell my own stories.

For example:

It’s easy for me to tell when I’m doing something religiously or when I’m doing it to build my relationship with God.

When it doesn’t fit into my schedule to do something—that I’m doing religiously—I feel like I’ve failed, that I’ll never get it right, that I’ll never measure up.

However, when I use that same form to enhance my relationship with God—and I can’t do it for a day or even a season—I simply make space to do it or look forward to next time I can do it. It doesn’t matter if I do everything on the list or focus on a particular piece on any random day.

It’s like this—I need to stretch everyday. When I don’t have time to stretch or forget a particular stretch, I will feel it in my body at some point in the day. When I feel it in my body, I make sure to stretch as soon as I can. Like this morning I forgot to stretch my shoulders and arms, so I did it in the office before the service. I don’t beat myself up about not stretching.

In the spiritual, I need to spend my best and first time of my day with God. When I miss it, or rush through part of it—like I forget to exchange my problems for his peace—I will notice it. I will feel it in my spirit and make sure I do that as soon as I can. I don’t beat myself up about it. His grace is sufficient. I apologize—sometimes confess and repent—and move on.

Working out of religion brings shame. Working out of relationship brings life.

Don’t get overwhelmed with Align to Abide

What I’m going to share today please realize I’m not saying, “This is what you need to do”.

I’m offering you tools to help you Seek Him Always. Seek Him and find Him. Seek Him and live!

Please don’t get overwhelmed by everything I’m going to tell you today. What I’m sharing with you has grown over the better part of a year.

I started with a this form and realized I’ve been in this dance with God for several years and was so excited to see how this piece fit that piece and how that tool supported this discipline and how this element really was that rhythm.

And my prayer lists have turned into praise and thanksgiving organically over time—if I showed you my petition and intercession lists you might think it’s ridiculous. But again, they’ve grown organically, over time as I’ve spent time with God he’s turned my heart towards people and situations. They get on the list.

My walk is not your walk, your walk is not my walk. We walk together the same path, but He directs our steps different.

And so in your notes you’ll find a lot of links. Please don’t get overwhelmed with them. These are available for you to fit into any part of your own rhythm.

So how do you walk in the light of His resurrection?

That’s a great question, I’m so glad you asked.

Let’s get into Align to Abide

Prepare to Abide

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Prepare your space

I start with music. I use an app…options…option coming

Why? See 2 Kings 3:15 Elisha said: "But now bring me a harpist." And while the harpist was playing, the hand of the Lord came upon him.

Prepare your mind

Never forget

Every Kingdom movement starts with prayer. —John Smed “Prayer Revolution”

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1. Centring prayer

Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. Colossians 3:1–2

My prayer

Lord give me the capacity to do the things that need to get done, the awareness of your presence to know I’m doing what you have for me to do, the assurance to know you empower me to accomplish every good work prompted by faith.

And the grace for myself if I can’t see everything I’d like to get accomplished in the time I’d like it to be done. I know and trust Your purpose for me will be fulfilled, so help me act and pray like I trust that you will finish your good work in me.

And help me have the grace for others—knowing that since you’ll finish the good work in me, you will finish the good work you started in them—so I can think of them ahead of myself. Thank you that You do all things well.

This ending piece is what I’d recommend:

My eyes are open and expectant for every treasure you have for me to find today. Thank you for being God with Us. Help me be with you today.

2. Daily Reflection

When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them? Psalm 8:3-4

Random reflections https://revtrev.com/reflections/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that when I call on you that you answer me and show me remarkable things I do not know Jeremiah 33:3

3. Give thanks and praise

Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. Psalm 104:1

Give thanks with your whole heart

I will give thanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds. Psalm 9:1

Give thanks with your whole heart Tool https://revtrev.com/feel-gratitude/

Turn your thanksgiving to praise:

Thank you that you are worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honour and power, for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created. Revelation 4:11

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you I can always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is Your will for me because I belong to Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

4. Be Still and know He is God

“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting” Psalm 139:23-24

To Abide you need to be still. Here’s a the BE STILL Tool https://revtrev.com/be-still/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that you understand so I can say: But when I am afraid, I will put my trust in you. I praise God for what he has promised. I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? Psalm 56:3-4

5. Confession and Repentance

* Don’t let those who trust in you be ashamed because of me, O Sovereign Lord of Heaven’s Armies. Don’t let me cause them to be humiliated,O God of Israel. Psalm 69:6

Two questions

Is there anything I’ve done or not done that would make those closest to me ashamed or humiliated—more than them just rolling their eyes?

Is there anyone I need to forgive?

TURN https://revtrev.com/turn/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you for your promise that you will give me a new heart and put a new spirit in me; that you will remove from me my heart of stone and give me a heart of flesh Ezekiel 36:26

6. Pray Scripture

All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better. Colossians 1:10b

Lectio Divina Tool and Verses https://revtrev.com/pray-scripture/

Thank you that the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. Hebrews 4:12

7. Ask Petitions

Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. James 4:2b

Pray from Identity Matthew 7:9-11

Your identity is that you have a good Father who knows what you need, so you don’t have to keep babbling like the pagans because He enjoys giving good gifts to his children, but he wants you ask for what you eat and drink and wear because He wants you to know He takes care of you like the flowers and birds.

A. Remember to ask for…

If I have to work for it, I need to pray for it.

Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you. Psalm 37:5

The possible stuff done His way is path the feeling his presence and pleasure.

B. Family’s Future

God’s will - have not because you ask not.

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Philippians 4:6

Example:

Health and strength for myself and all my family members—may we all have strength for all of our days.

Give us hearts to know you and your hope and our inheritance in Christ and the same power that raised Jesus from the dead, which is available to us. May we always learn to know you better and better.

Bless the work of our hands. Empower every good work prompted by our faith. May all our plans succeed for your glory. Lead us in your ways.

I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth. Draw them to Yourself. Cover them in the shelter of Your wing. May our children and their children return to their own borders. Settle them back in their own lands. May they find their boundaries lines are in pleasant places. Turn what the enemy meant for evil for good. Redeem them—they are yours. They have been bought with a price. They belong to you. The promise of the Holy Spirit is for us and our children and all who are far off. Don’t let them ignore your promise.

May our children and their children and their children—and all who believe because of them—receive the inheritance of our father and mother. You are with them in their coming and going and in their sitting and rising. Thank you that Your kindness to them will lead them to You.

May they seek Your face always. May they seek You and find You. May they seek You and live!

C. Commit my Plans

Dream with God, Stay on track with what He’s prompted me to do and for what I’m responsible for.

I cry out to God Most High, to God who will fulfill his purpose for me. Psalms 57:2

This verse realigned my perspective. I knew God would fulfill his purpose for me…He’s God. But that means I need to cry out to Him

My books, courses, resources, websites, social media strategies, book marketing strategies… He directs my steps - for example. I know I need to get the courses done first and then the books will help market them.

D. Commit my Commitments

Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. Proverbs 16:3

Kingdom Way

5 Prayers to Praying For....

1. Believers would have a passion for the lost Luke 19:10
2. Believers would have a desire to return to Church Hebrews 10:24-25 and corporate times of worship ~ 2 Corinthians 3:18
3. Believers would experience the release of God’s glory in their personal, and corporate times of worship ~ 2 Corinthians 3:18, Psalm 22:3
4. Pre-believers would be drawn into the church because they feel God’s presence
   1 Corinthians 14:24-25
5. Believers would passionately desire to serve Matt 9:37-38

MCare

1 million souls by 2030

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that you gave us parables so that we’d always pray and never give up Luke 18:1

8. Cast Cares

Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. 1 Peter 5:7

CAST Your Cares Upon Him Tool https://revtrev.com/cast/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that You promise that You will rescue those who love You and that You will protect those who trust in Your name. Psalm 91:14

9. Intercession

May your Kingdom come soon. May your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven. Matthew 6:10

Pray from authority Matthew 28:18-19

Our Authority comes from Christ having all authority and teaching us to pray His Kingdom come and His will be done on earth as it is in heaven

A. Our Family

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain. Psalm 127:1

Our family, extended family, all the kids and significant others and future spouse, by name and by need.

Helps me remember names and conversations. Absolutely a benefit I didn’t expect.

B. Who God puts on my heart…

For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives. Colossians 1:9

For friends, work, and church by name and by need

C. For our Country

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them.Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity. 1 Timothy 2:1-2

I will pray God helps them. I will intercede for them. And give thanks for them.

Nations - Nation - Province - City

And work for the peace and prosperity of the city where I sent you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, for its welfare will determine your welfare. Jeremiah 29:7

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that the prayer of someone—you’ve made righteous—is powerful and effective. James 5:16

10. Meditation

I meditate on your precepts and consider your ways. Psalm 119:15

Soul time app https://www.soultime.com/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that the words of my mouth and the mediations of my heart can be pleasing in your sight. Psalm 19:14

11. Bible Reading

Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Joshua 1:8

100 Promises of God https://revtrev.com/promises/

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank you that your promises are my my armour and protection Psalm 94:1

12. Journal with God

I will stand at my watch and station myself on the ramparts; I will look to see what he will say to me, and what answer I am to give to this complaint. Habakkuk 2:1

Journal with God Tool https://revtrev.com/journal

Abide with thanksgiving:
Thank You that You make known to me the path of life and you fill me with joy in your presence. Psalm 16:11

Final Abiding with Thanksgiving

Thank you I can be filled with joy, always thanking the Father. For you have enabled you to share in the inheritance that belongs to Your people, who live in the light. Colossians 9:11b-12

Conclusion of Align to Abide

I know this works. I feel His presence and want to be in His presence and have His peace and hope and joy at all times and in every situation.

They were getting me ready to leave the ward after my Cardiac Ablation Surgery and two nurses—I had gotten to know—were changing the dressing on each side. The one on the right was done and left. The one on the left was holding pressure on a possible hematoma when he noticed I had sprung a leak. He asked Karen the leave, put pressure on the right side and called the other nurse back. She took over and pressed harder and I started to feel like I’d be sick or pass out. They put me back on a drip and gave me some orange juice, so I started feeling better.

And I felt appreciation for this nurse. She was working overtime to make sure I could make it home as soon as I could. So I thanked her—she had been holding pressure the whole time. She replied “You’re far too positive for the situation you’re in right now.” I was lying in a pool of my own blood. I laughed and said, “I’m just glad it happened here and that you could help me rather than at home.”

It wasn’t a delusional laugh. I was at peace. I had His joy. I knew He was going to use this for His good.

It’s not my natural state...but is my supernatural state

I don’t get to that place naturally but I’m learning to get to it easily. I do that because I’m learning to abide in Him. Every day I’m making space to be with Him and hear from him.

It was the Wednesday before the procedure and in my quite time with God I had to confess I was concerned about “complications” from it all. I was asking AI about what to expect and asking God why I so concerned about such low numbers.

It turns out I had to confess I was trusting in a whole lot of other things instead of trusting in him. He reminded me of other times I have been through the fire and not been burned and through the flood and not been swept away and through deep waters and not been drowned because HE was with me. I felt him ask me if I would trust him regardless of complications? I decided I would—with his help. I think prayed “When I am I afraid, I’ll trust in you.”

I don’t get to that place naturally but I’m learning to get to it easily.

I don’t get to that place naturally but I’m learning to get to it easily. I need his presence always, so I seek His presence intentionally. I do it in the morning and it’s easier to feel His presence all day.

Since we live by the Spirit we need to keep in step with the Spirit. How do you let love and joy and peace and patience and kindness and gentleness and self-control grow in you? We cannot keep this as an idea in our head or a sentiment in our heart, we need to work out its implications into every area of our lives.

We can’t spout truism if it’s not true in our lives. Bumperstickers telling people the hope we have can be real pretentious if people don’t see the hope we have. Bible verses on walls are great, but if those promises aren’t lived out it becomes religion. Religion brings rules. Relationship brings life.

Our relationship with the resurrected Jesus means we need to abide in him.

People need to see the hope that we have. In His presence is fullness of joy. The God of all hope fills us with peace and joy as we trust in Him so that we can overflow with hope by the power of Holy Spirit. I don’t get to that place naturally but I’m learning to get to it easily.

The time I spend with Him—every morning I can with Him helps me to seek Him in the time between times. And praise Him in the moments of awe I see every day. It helps me to put all my plans into His hands. And keeps me on the path he has for me.

What will you do to be more aware of His presence in your life?

Has your heart said “Seek His Face”?

Have you replied, “Your face, oh Lord I will seek”?

Do you now how you’ll seek him in this season?

He’s is seeking for hearts that are totally devoted to him.

Application to Abide

Maybe there’s something you can add to your prayer time that will revive it for a season?

Maybe you’ve already thought “I used to do that, why did I stop?”

Maybe you heard something exciting you’d like to try.

All the tools are at all the links I gave you in the notes. If you go to the church webpage—after I have this message posted—all those links will be live. If you book mark it on your phone, you can work through whatever tool you’d to use.

Challenge to Abide

You really need to hear what God is saying to you. Don’t do what I’m doing because I told you about it.

Maybe God wants you to spend an hour each day?

Maybe you should set a time?

Maybe it’s a season to go deep in one aspect we’ve talked about.

If you ask Him, He will tell you. You will feel His pull. He’s seeking for you.

Seek Him always. Seek Him and find. Seek him and live.

Can I pray for you so you can Abide?

Lord give us ears to hear, hearts to know and hands to obey what you’re telling us to do. In the next few moments speak clearly and speak live.

Thank you you’re always with us. Help us be with you.

Listen to Holy Spirit’s voice.

What is He calling you to?

How to Walk in Surrender

In this message, we explore how to walk in surrender. We examine the themes of betrayal and submission through biblical narratives. Learn how these events can shape your spiritual journey. Join us as we uncover valuable lessons on trust and resilience. Discover how to navigate personal relationships while maintaining your faith. Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical advice on overcoming betrayal and fostering submission to God's will.

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In our series with the Road to the Resurrection, we are at Maundy Thursday - the night he was betrayed.

It’s also the night his disciples did support Him in prayer, the night he was deserted and the night he was denied. But we remember it as the night He was betrayed.

We’re going to look at how Jesus walked out that day and how we can walk in surrender to God.

Because When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Can we pray?

There are three events on the night Jesus was betrayed that demonstrate how He walked in surrender that we are going to focus on today.

There’s more I can say, but I’m going to focus on three events that lead up to the other events.

The Washing of the Disciples Feet,

The Celebration of the Last Supper,

The Betrayal in the Garden.

These show us what surrender really is and how we can apply it in the day-to-day of our everyday.

1. Washing the Disciples' Feet

John 13:1-17 Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end. It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.When Jesus came to Simon Peter, Peter said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”Jesus replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.”

If you ever need a promise claim that one.

“No,” Peter protested, “you will never ever wash my feet!” Jesus replied, “Unless I wash you, you won’t belong to me.” Simon Peter exclaimed, “Then wash my hands and head as well, Lord, not just my feet!”Jesus replied, “A person who has bathed all over does not need to wash, except for the feet, to be entirely clean. And you disciples are clean, but not all of you.” For Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.” After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. I tell you the truth, slaves are not greater than their master. Nor is the messenger more important than the one who sends the message. Now that you know these things, God will bless you for doing them.”

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Surrender is not what the world tells you it is. It’ s not giving up to someone or something who is trying to bully you. It’s not the “loser” in the “winner and loser” zero-sum politics that some people like to play.

Surrender is demonstrated by Jesus: Jesus took on the role of a servant. He washed the feet of the one who would betray him, the ones who would desert him, the one who would deny him.

He flipped everything up-side down. You want to be the greatest you need to serve the best. It is not about you, it’s about the one who sends you.

The one who is sending you is God. The one you need to become more and more like is Jesus. He left you an example so you can follow in his steps.

* Surrender is a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of others.

It is choosing humility over pride and service over status.

Philippians 2:3-4 NLT Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

Let’s continue the story in Luke and talk about the Last Supper.

⠀2. The Last Supper

Luke 22:14-23 When the time came, Jesus and the apostles sat down together at the table. Jesus said, “I have been very eager to eat this Passover meal with you before my suffering begins. For I tell you now that I won’t eat this meal again until its meaning is fulfilled in the Kingdom of God.”Then he took a cup of wine and gave thanks to God for it. Then he said, “Take this and share it among yourselves. For I will not drink wine again until the Kingdom of God has come.”He took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and gave it to the disciples, saying, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.”After supper he took another cup of wine and said, “This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood, which is poured out as a sacrifice for you.“But here at this table, sitting among us as a friend, is the man who will betray me. For it has been determined that the Son of Man must die. But what sorrow awaits the one who betrays him.” The disciples began to ask each other which of them would ever do such a thing.

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

I mentioned it’s Maundy Thursday. Do you know what that means?

"maundy" comes from the Latin word "mandatum," meaning "command" or "mandate".

It comes from Jesus instituting a new covenant at his last passover meal.

Have you ever wondered why we celebrate communion, but not foot washing? It’s because the Corinthian church got communion so badly that Paul needed to correct it. He wrote to them that he has special revelation that he received from the Lord that he reminded them of.

Paul had a special revelation from the Lord that communion was to continue until the Lord comes back. It’s how we regularly remember everything that changed at the cross.

Everything changed at the cross:

• Guilt was removed (Justification). Romans 3:23-24
• The price of sin was paid (Redemption). Romans 3:25
• Our sins were washed (Propitiation). 1 Corinthians 6:11
• We were made friends again with God (Reconciliation). 2 Corinthians 5:19
• We are no longer fallen (Identification). Ephesians 2:4-6
• Satan’s Rule Was Ended (Reclamation). Colossians 2:15
• The curse of the law was canceled (Expiation). Galatians 3:13

Why Celebrate Communion and Not Foot Washing

So we know the earliest church celebrated communion, and it was because God illuminated it to Paul that we know it’s for us until Christ returns and we celebrate what it represents with Him.

For the first 3 centuries the church gathered around table. So getting this right was so important. It wasn’t until the 4th century we started gathering around the Word.

On the other hand, from earliest time we understood washing each other’s feet meant submitting to one another in love. It is a way of life, not a ceremony…unless God gives someone a special revelation for a specific time.

Pick up the story

Let’s pick it up the story with Luke you’re not going to believe this. Remember, they were just asking each other which one of them could ever betray Jesus, next verse…

Luke 22:24-27Then they began to argue among themselves about who would be the greatest among them. Jesus told them, “In this world the kings and great men lord it over their people, yet they are called ‘friends of the people.’ But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant. Who is more important, the one who sits at the table or the one who serves? The one who sits at the table, of course. But not here! For I am among you as one who serves."

Now, two things could be happening. I think John was the last Gospel written and John wrote it when he was an old man. He could remember the events in a different order—we know this conversation happened on the night Jesus was betrayed.

But I know young men—I once considered myself young—and it’s totally reasonable for young men to go from “I’m not going to betray him” to “I’m the best one here.” And it’s completely natural for young men to be correct twice the same night for the same arrogance and misplaced trust.

So I don’t have a problem with John putting this correction when Jesus washed their feet and Luke putting it when they were on the way to the garden.

But you’d like to feel the eye of Jesus rolls. You’d like to imagine him slapping his forehead. When are these guys going to clue in?

But he doesn’t because what’s true for us is true for him.

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

His disciples were so confident that they were still arguing about who would be the greatest. Remember Jesus sent them out to heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, cast out demons and raise the dead. They came back rejoicing that even demons were subjected to them. They just saw the crowd wave palm branches and throw down their cloaks and shouted Hossana!

And even though Jesus was talking about dying, they thought he was just talking in riddles again or just saying things they couldn’t understand yet but maybe in time, they would understand it.

They knew the Messiah would come in power. And they knew Jesus was the Messiah. Therefore Jesus would come in power.

The logic holds.

The one who actually might have believed what Jesus said about dying was Judas Iscariot. Remember he went out to heal the sick and cleanse the lepers and cast out demons and raised the dead. He returned, with them all and all excited.

How did the devil prompt him? We’re not told. We know he kept the money bag and helped himself to it. There was something in him looking out for self.

But I wonder if Judas was the first to realize Jesus was serious when he said He was going to die. It would have shattered his belief in Jesus being the Messiah.

If he believed Jesus was going to die and knew the Messiah was going to come in power, then Judas hadn’t surrendered to God’s plan. So instead of embracing peace, he tried to take control.

Surrender is the opposite of trying to take control.

* Surrender is trusting God's plan, even when it challenges your understanding.

We know what to do when God’s plan doesn’t make sense to our thinking…

Philippians 4:6-7 NLT Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Let’s pick it up with Matthew…

Matthew 26:30-35Then they sang a hymn and went out to the Mount of Olives.On the way, Jesus told them, “Tonight all of you will desert me. For the Scriptures say, ‘God will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’ But after I have been raised from the dead, I will go ahead of you to Galilee and meet you there.”Peter declared, “Even if everyone else deserts you, I will never desert you.”Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, Peter—this very night, before the rooster crows, you will deny three times that you even know me.” "No!” Peter insisted. “Even if I have to die with you, I will never deny you!” And all the other disciples vowed the same.

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

I’ve learned the hard way to not argue with Jesus. I’m not saying “I don’t still do it at times.” I’ve learned His peace is more important than my will being done.

When I disagree with him—and yes, that still happens—I’ll find a Psalm that feels the same way I do and wrestle with that Psalm until I ultimately decide to agree with Jesus.

I guess I do it enough that I’ve created a webpage on my site with every Psalm of Lament grouped into emotions so I can find the one that feels the way I currently am feeling more quickly. https://revtrev.com/psalms/

Let’s move on to the Garden. I’ll move through Luke and Matthew’s accounts…

3. Betrayal in the Garden

Luke 22:39-42

Then, accompanied by the disciples, Jesus left the upstairs room and went as usual to the Mount of Olives. There he told them, “Pray that you will not give in to temptation.” He walked away, about a stone’s throw, and knelt down and prayed, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”

Matthew 26:40-42

Then he returned to the disciples and found them asleep. He said to Peter, “Couldn’t you watch with me even one hour? Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak!”Then Jesus left them a second time and prayed, “My Father! If this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will be done.” When he returned to them again, he found them sleeping, for they couldn’t keep their eyes open. So he went to pray a third time, saying the same things again.

Luke 22:43-44

Then an angel from heaven appeared and strengthened him. He prayed more fervently, and he was in such agony of spirit that his sweat fell to the ground like great drops of blood.

Matthew 26:43-46

Then he came to the disciples and said, “Go ahead and sleep. Have your rest. But look—the time has come. The Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. Up, let’s be going. Look, my betrayer is here!”

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Jesus pointed out to his disciples that prayerlessness leads to temptation. He prayed through because he knew what he had to endure.

Do you let prayerlessness lead to temptation?

We have no idea what he was going through. On a spiritual level—what was it like to take the sins of the whole world on himself? We’ll never know.

We have lost the significance of the cross for the ones who experienced first hand.

I was going to buy an oversized guillotine around my neck to show you how ridiculous it is. I was shocked and a bit horrified at the selection of guillotine necklace on Amazon—and you should see the suggestions it’s giving me know.

So maybe let me explain it a different way.

Did you know what the earliest image of Jesus on the Cross is?

It’s this one. It’s graffiti from the 1st century…

Can you see it? Here it is cleaned up…

Can you read Latin? I can’t either. Here it is in translation

“Alexandro worshiping his god.”

This graffiti was probably created to make fun of “Alexandros,” a Christian, by implying that he worshiped a “donkey-headed” God. The inscription that accompanies the image indeed reads: “Alexandro worshiping his god.”

The fact that “Alexandro’s God” is being crucified makes it even worse, as during the 1st century crucifixion was a punishment reserved for serious crime offenders.

It was the worst of the worst. Proper Roman citizens wouldn’t even say the word crucified or crucifixion in public. It was not a topic talked about. It was certainly not something celebrated…

…Christians did not celebrate the cross in images until the 5th century — 100 years after Constantine outlawed crucifixion as a punishment in Rome. It was out of use for 100 years before we see it become more common in Christian iconography.

We don’t understand the Cross like those who saw Jesus on it did. We don’t understand the pain, the humiliation, the degradation. Jesus sweated—as it were—drops of blood.

Hematridrosis

Hematridrosis is a condition which the capillaries surrounding sweat glands rupture due to extreme physical or emotional stress. Blood mixes with sweat, causing the person to sweat blood.

Has that happened to you? It hasn’t happened to me. I can never know what Jesus went through in the garden. I’m glad there was an angel there to help him.

We can’t

• understand the spiritual side.
• comprehend the physical pain.
• grasp the societal shame.

But we know Jesus showed us a life of surrender when he showed us his anguish in the Garden.

Surrender is not giving in to the turmoil.

* Surrender is aligning your heart to God’s will.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Judas led a crowd with men with swords and clubs to the garden and signaled to them who Jesus was with a kiss.

Jesus asked who they were looking for and they told him and he send “I am he” and they fell back. And he said, “Take me, and let these guys go”, so they reached for him and Peter took a sword and cut off the ear of the high priests’ servant.

Jesus healed the servant and told his disciples to stand down. And they scattered.

Can Jesus give us any better example than that, showing us…

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Jesus went like a lamb to the slaughter while being a lion on a throne. He didn’t answer his accusers or debate what they were saying about him. He wasn’t surrendering to them. He was surrendered to the will of his Father.

There’s more to this night, but we’ll leave our look at it here.

Feeling Hopeless

When I was in Seminary I had a professor who said, “The only service people should leave a little bit depressed by, it’s a Maundy Thursday Service.”

You get it don’t you?

To leave feeling what the disciples felt would be to leave hopeless, ignorant of what was coming.

Does it matter?

We’re all going to have times in our life when our hope has been misplaced or our plans have been disrupted or all of sudden our world stop making any sense.

What do you do when your trust has been lost?

That’s a great question, I’m so glad you asked.

That’s why I’ve developed the How to Walk in Surrender Tool.

How to Walk in Surrender Tool

You’re going to have to lay down and DIE

D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint Hebrews 12:2

I - Insist on agreeing with His promises Psalm 91:4

E -Exchange your problems for His Peace 1 Peter 5:7

Let’s unpack this…

D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint

Hebrews 12:2 …fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

Remember: Surrender is trusting God's plan, even when it challenges your understanding.

When our hope is in any else but Jesus, our hope will lead to disappointment. You know this true, because you’ve had disappointment—in relationships, in health and in what you receive for what you do. The battle for hope is the battle for identity and these three areas are where we are always attacked. If your hope is in any of them, you will be disappointed.

But your hope can be in Jesus. You know the difference that makes. If you don’t you need to. Ask Holy Spirit how to do it. I have some tools that can help.

Is my hope in Christ alone?

I - Insist on agreeing with His promises

Psalm 91:4 He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armour and protection.

Remember: Surrender is a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of others.

We are transformed by the renewing of our mind. That renewal comes from reading the Word that reads us. It is living and active and It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. Let him show you what His promises are for you.

There are 8,810 promises of God…

Promises of God - https://revtrev.com/promises

Do I hold on to His promises?

E -Exchange your problems for His Peace

1 Peter 5:7 Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.

Walking in Surrender does not mean not asking God to make it easier for you. It’s understanding that prayer can keep you from temptation.

Remember: Surrender is aligning your heart to God’s will. You do this in prayer.

You exchange your problems for His peace. Work through the CAST my Cares Upon Him Tool…

CAST my Cares Upon Him

C - Centre in on His care for you 1 Peter 5:7

A - Agree with a Psalm that feels like you do Psalm 62:8

S - Set your focus on gratitude Philippians 4:6-7

T - Take ahold of some promises Psalm 91:4

Do cast all my cares on Him?

When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.

Review…

How to Walk in Surrender Tool

You’re going to have to lay down and DIE

D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint

Hebrews 12:2 Is my hope in Christ alone?

I - Insist on agreeing with His promises

Psalm 91:4 Do I hold on to His promises?

E -Exchange your problems for His Peace

1 Peter 5:7Do cast all my cares on Him?

Conclusion

We’re going to close in Communion and continue in communion after the service is dismissed.

Put on the music as we prepare to take communion.

Paul tells us

1 Corinthians 11:23-34 For I pass on to you what I received from the Lord himself. On the night when he was betrayed, the Lord Jesus took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and said, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, he took the cup of wine after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood. Do this in remembrance of me as often as you drink it.” For every time you eat this bread and drink this cup, you are announcing the Lord’s death until he comes again. So anyone who eats this bread or drinks this cup of the Lord unworthily is guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord. That is why you should examine yourself before eating the bread and drinking the cup. For if you eat the bread or drink the cup without honoring the body of Christ, you are eating and drinking God’s judgment upon yourself. That is why many of you are weak and sick and some have even died. But if we would examine ourselves, we would not be judged by God in this way. Yet when we are judged by the Lord, we are being disciplined so that we will not be condemned along with the world. So, my dear brothers and sisters, when you gather for the Lord’s Supper, wait for each other. If you are really hungry, eat at home so you won’t bring judgment upon yourselves when you meet together. I’ll give you instructions about the other matters after I arrive.

Let’s examine ourselves in this moment.

Ask God if there is any reason that those who trust in Him would be ashamed because of you, Is there any reason you can cause them to be humiliated. (See Psalm 69:6)

If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth.  But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.  1 John 1:8-9

Thank you for the promise:

“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel 36:26)

Dismiss to fellowship

How Humility Will Change the World

Join us as we explore the Triumphal Entry of Jesus the Humble King. This event marks a pivotal moment in the New Testament. Discover the deeper meaning behind this significant occasion. Learn about the lessons of humility and faith that resonate today. Whether you are familiar with the story or learning it for the first time, this video will provide insights into Jesus' journey into Jerusalem and its impact on Christian beliefs.

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Jesus left Bethany and probably the home of Lazarus, Mary and Martha and set out for Jerusalem. It was time to announce his arrival in a way he never did before. His time had come. It was the week of his death.

Matthew 21:1-17 NLT As Jesus and the disciples approached Jerusalem, they came to the town of Bethphage (bayth-fag-ay’) on the Mount of Olives. Jesus sent two of them on ahead. 2 “Go into the village over there,” he said. “As soon as you enter it, you will see a donkey tied there, with its colt beside it. Untie them and bring them to me. 3 If anyone asks what you are doing, just say, ‘The Lord needs them,’ and he will immediately let you take them.” 4 This took place to fulfill the prophecy that said, 5 “Tell the people of Jerusalem, ‘Look, your King is coming to you. He is humble, riding on a donkey— riding on a donkey’s colt.’ 6 The two disciples did as Jesus commanded. 7 They brought the donkey and the colt to him and threw their garments over the colt, and he sat on it. 8 Most of the crowd spread their garments on the road ahead of him, and others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road. 9 Jesus was in the center of the procession, and the people all around him were shouting, “Praise God  for the Son of David! Blessings on the one who comes in the name of the Lord! Praise God in highest heaven!” 10 The entire city of Jerusalem was in an uproar as he entered. “Who is this?” they asked. 11 And the crowds replied, “It’s Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.” 12 Jesus entered the Temple and began to drive out all the people buying and selling animals for sacrifice. He knocked over the tables of the money changers and the chairs of those selling doves. 13 He said to them, “The Scriptures declare, ‘My Temple will be called a house of prayer,’ but you have turned it into a den of thieves!” 14 The blind and the lame came to him in the Temple, and he healed them. 15 The leading priests and the teachers of religious law saw these wonderful miracles and heard even the children in the Temple shouting, “Praise God for the Son of David.” But the leaders were indignant. 16 They asked Jesus, “Do you hear what these children are saying?” “Yes,” Jesus replied. “Haven’t you ever read the Scriptures? For they say, ‘You have taught children and infants to give you praise.’” 17 Then he returned to Bethany, where he stayed overnight.

Can I pray?

Humility changes the world

4 Reasons Jesus Entered Jerusalem on a foal of a donkey

• 1. Fulfillment of Prophecy: This event fulfilled the prophecy found in Zechariah 9:9, which states, “Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout, daughter of Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and having salvation, gentle and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.” This demonstrated Jesus as the Messiah.
• 2. Public Declaration: This act was a public declaration of His identity as the Messiah. The crowds recognized this and honoured Him with palm branches, shouting, “Hosanna!” This shows their acceptance and recognition of His role.
• 3. Contrast to Expectations: Many expected a political leader to overthrow Roman rule. Jesus’ choice of a donkey countered these expectations, highlighting His kingdom was not of this world.
• 4. Symbol of Peace: A donkey symbolizes peace. Kings who rode horses usually showed power and military strength. By riding a donkey, Jesus presented Himself as a humble king who came to bring peace rather than conflict.

So you might be asking…

How could Jesus arrive in Jerusalem on a symbol of peace and then go to the temple and cause chaos?

That’s a good question…

First let’s realize that’s not all he did at the temple. We’re also told “The blind and the lame came to him in the Temple, and he healed them.” V14 He was also questioned by leaders and He taught them and those around.

Secondly I think we need to recognize:

Humility does not negate authority.

On the day Jesus entered Jerusalem to shouts of Hosanna!; we him exhibit both his humility and his authority. We need to keep both things in mind. He shows it even more a little later in the week, in fact we see something more about the connection between authority and humility on the night he was betrayed.

Next time I speak I hope to talk about this more. For now, I’ll give you sneak peak to show you something mind-blowing.

John 13:1-5 NLT Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end. It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.

It was because of his authority he showed them his humility.

In this inside, outside, upside, downside kingdom

Authority Allows For Real Humility

I want you to catch that. Humility and Authority are connected. But it’s not two sides of the some coin. Real humility flows from authority. We show humility because of His authority. (See Ephesians 5:21)

Let me explain. It’s best we start with what the Bible says humility is not and what is says it is.

3 Things Real Humility is not…

1. Putting yourself down James 4:6

2. Acting like you’re doing someone a favour Matthew 23:12

3. Comparing yourself to Others 2 Corinthians 10:12 and saying someone is better than you.

7 Things Real Biblical Humility Is…

1. Recognizing Dependence on God Psalm 25:9

2. Serving Others in Love Mark 10:44-45

3. Being Teachable and Open to Correction Proverbs 11:2

4. Putting Others Ahead of Yourself Philippians 2:3-4

5. Gentleness and Patience Ephesians 4:2

6. The Fear of the Lord Proverbs 22:4

7. Doing What You Do Out of Who and Whose You Are John 13:4

The disciples didn’t get what Real Humility was. It didn’t come to them naturally. It’s certainly didn’t come their mothers naturally. Real humility needs to be caught AND taught. Look at what happened here. In Matthew this happens right before Jesus enters Jerusalem.

Matthew 20:20-28 NLT Then the mother of James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Jesus with her sons. She knelt respectfully to ask a favour. “What is your request?” he asked. She replied, “In your Kingdom, please let my two sons sit in places of honour next to you, one on your right and the other on your left.” But Jesus answered by saying to them, “You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink?” “Oh yes,” they replied, “we are able!” Jesus told them, “You will indeed drink from my bitter cup. But I have no right to say who will sit on my right or my left. My Father has prepared those places for the ones he has chosen.” When the ten other disciples heard what James and John had asked, they were indignant.  But Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

The Problem with Humility

We live in the same world that the first disciples did. We live in a world often captivated by power and prestige. The concept of humility can feel out of place. Look at current US politics.

We often associate greatness with grand displays, wealth, and dominance. And think of humility as humiliation.

But Christ’s humiliation allows us to have real humility. Philippians 2:5-8 Did you catch that? Our Authority comes from identity. Our identity whose we are—the one who adopted us, the one one who named us and called us His own, the one who bought us with a price so we belong to him—We are born not of perishable seed, but of imperishable seed. He has set us free and our freedom allows us to serve others in love.

His humiliation allows us to have real humility.

Does this really matter?

It is counterintuitive to the world’s system. It is the way Jesus showed us to live. The Triumphal Entry is more than just a historical event; it is a profound lesson about humility and service.

In our daily lives, we encounter situations where we may feel pressured to assert ourselves or seek recognition. Understanding Jesus' approach encourages us to embrace humility and to recognize that true strength lies in serving others.

Ephesians 4:2 NLT Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.

What if?

What if we embraced this example of humility in our own lives?

What if we approached challenges with grace rather than aggression?

Think about how our relationships could transform if we prioritized service over status.

Humility changes the world.

Philippians 2:3-8  {Jesus did} nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility {he} value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!

Humility changes the world.

Look how Jesus endured his humiliation with humility…

Hebrews 12:2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

His humility changed the world.

Imagine Humility changing your World

Imagine a community where humility reigns—where nothing is done out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Leaders serve selflessly, and individuals prioritize the well-being of one another. Conflicts would give way to earned understanding, and joy would flourish as everyone works together for the common good. Crap still happens, but real love reigns.

What can I do?

That’s a great question.

You can’t control the humility of others. You can only control a humbling of yourself James 4:10

And don’t worry, I have a tool that can help.

How to Practice Christ-like Humility - BE KIND

B - Be Bold in Love
E - Encourage Always

K - Keep Forgiving
I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness
N - Nurture Real Relationships
D - Dwell in Compassion

B - Be Bold in Love

1 John 4:19 We love each other because he loved us first.

Perfect love comes from God and flows through us to others. Show love fearlessly, reflecting the love God has shown you

Am I confident enough in God’s love I can share it with others?

E - Encourage Always

1 Thessalonians 5:11 So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.

Offer words of affirmation and support to uplift those around you. We are to let nothing come out of our mouths that isn’t for the encouragement of others.

Do I let nothing come out of my mouth that isn’t for the encouragement of others?

K - Keep Forgiving

Colossians 3:13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.

Let go of grudges and practice forgiveness to foster peace.

Is there anything keeping me from forgiving others?

I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness

Galatians 6:9 So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.

Little simple gestures change lives daily.

I’m working on a 47-Day Negativity Fast Challenge where I’m encouraging people to Be Grateful-Be Mindful-Be Kind and I knew I needed a tool or a rhythm to help people know when they are being kind. You get a sneak peak at it today. Try it out and let me know if it helps.

Do I say YES? Tool

Y - Your State Proverbs 16:2

Check your motivation

We shouldn’t do anything for the show or the dough or the worry or the hurry. We shouldn’t do anything out of shame or to avoid shame. We should let our compassion lead us and not shut off our compassion. 1 John 3:17-18

Why do I want to help?

E - Evaluate the Situation - Luke 12:12

Be situationally aware.

Consider the context and the needs of those around you. Remember a loud blessing too early in the morning can be considered a curse. Proverbs 27:14 Will your kindness be seen as a kindness or as an obligation to repay? The good news is Holy Spirit will give you the words to say or attitude to show. As for His heart in the moment.

What does kindness look like in this moment?

S - Skills and Resources - Colossians 3:23-24

Hear and obey.

Think about what you can offer—time, skills, or words of encouragement. When we do what we do “as unto the Lord” and work with our whole heart, we do not become overwhelmed. We feel busy-ness based not on what is done but what is left undone. When we do what we do to serve Jesus, we never feel the burden of busyness.

The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed. Proverbs 11:25

What does God want me to do?

Y - Your State Proverbs 16:2 - Why do I want to help?

E - Evaluate the Situation - Luke 12:12 - What does kindness look like in this moment?

S - Skills and Resources - Colossians 3:23-24 - What does God want me to do?

Do I say YES to daily acts of kindness?

N - Nurture Real Relationships

Proverbs 17:17 A friend is always loyal,  and a brother is born to help in time of need.

All the ‘one another commands are naturally occurring when we consider each other friends.  Friendship takes time and trust. Invest time in building and maintaining strong relationships with others.

How can I nurture real relationships this week?

D - Dwell in Compassion

Ephesians 4:32 (NIV)  Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Let compassion lead you and don’t shut off your compassion. Compassion is love in action. Since God is love, God leads us through our compassion. Jesus was lead by compassion. Look at his miracles and the times it says he looked with compassion.

Do I let compassion lead?

Recap..

B - Be Bold in Love 1 John 4:19

• Am I confident enough in God’s love I can share it with others?

E - Encourage Always 1 Thessalonians 5:11

• Do I let nothing come out of my mouth that isn’t for the encouragement of others?

K - Keep Forgiving Colossians 3:13

• Is there anything keeping me from forgiving others?

I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness Galatians 6:9

Do I say YES to daily acts of kindness?

N - Nurture Real Relationships Proverbs 17:17

How can I nurture real relationships this week?

D - Dwell in Compassion Ephesians 4:32

Do I let compassion lead?

Will you let your humility change your world?

Will you BE KIND more and more? You’ll be practicing humility.

Can I pray for you?

Practical application

We’re going into a time of fellowship. Don’t rush out the door, even if you think you have to. Spend time talking. Spend time praying. BE KIND to one another.

I don’t see any problem with anyone not showing Christ-like humility. This is just a reminder and an opportunity to not grow weary doing good works to others. You will see a harvest…if you do not give up.

You can leave if you need to, but I’m not saying “You’re dismissed.” Because it’s time to be Jesus to each other. You’re the church. Be the church.